Life's Play

Life’s Play

Ferdous H Khan

Life’s Play---Life often plays games with you. You have to know the time and sequence of the game played. It could start at any moment without your knowledge. You must be very relaxed and looking for a lovely time with your family. To make the situation a memorable one you also invites few friends. Your wife comes and for nothing blames you to have not informed her and consulted the guest list. You are now singled out as an individual with self interest. You are tagged to have an affair with one of the invites, who happens to be close friend. Wives have never handled this part of their husband’s life with softness and understanding. Rather this side gave birth to the violent side of your wife. The women in life cannot comprehend that a situation of such friend ship can exist. May be there is a chemical signal initiation at both end i.e. ladies. Wife feels why husband has to have sympathy from another woman as a friend---she feels that the association is bonding into male female affair. Her logic sees another woman as a challenger in the system of natural law. When eye contact between the wife and your friend happens, the language of sight for both do not obey the same laws. Wife feels that the other woman is saying—I have your husband at the end of string and I can play at my leisure. Where as wife’s eye signals please leave my man. Therefore, wife has reason to feel humiliated and rejected. This will surely give rise to tornado within. This special human condition between man and woman must be understood by the man.